1. Complaining, Complaining, Complaining
Things suck. We’re libertarians, we know this. The government is in your emails, your bank accounts, your business, your bedroom. Much of libertarianism is complaining about the terrible things that the government is doing and how we’re not really free. This is the libertarian condition, frankly.
So, don’t add to it. A pity-party about how you’re not getting laid is the single most effective way to keep yourself from the sex you so obviously and desperately desire.
Here’s the deal: I don’t want to know how crappy your life is until I’ve learned why I should care about you. It’s a turn-off. This applies to complaints about jobs, friends, personal drama, money, and especially the fact that other women don’t seem to want you. One of the least attractive things a guy can do is whine about how “women all want XYZ, but I’m a genuine provider of ABC and they don’t care”. We don’t care. At that point, I’m not compelled to prove your statement wrong, I’m compelled to learn from the other women who are clearly not present, and recognize that if nobody else thinks you’re worth their time, why should I invest?