Top 5 Ways Libertarianism Can Teach You How to Attract Women

3. Honor Personal Liberty

Once you’ve been successful, the next stage of your attempt is just beginning. Almost anyone can get a woman to give him her phone number, but how you capitalize is how you will rise above the rest. The key to extending your success into at least a first date is honoring the central libertarian tenet of personal liberty.

As ridiculous as it may seem, there is a bit of gamesmanship in the 21st century upon receiving a phone number or friend request. When it comes to the number, it is best to give it around one day before sending a text indicating who you are, along with some witty banter (P.S. if you just text your name without some sort of topical joke, this is a missed opportunity and shows that you’re not really that interesting).

After this, your mettle will truly be tested. While it’s a difficult pill to swallow, if she doesn’t text you back within a few days, odds are that she’s not interested, and you really just have to move on. If she wants to continue talking to you, you must grant to her the personal liberty to do so. However, you must never ever double-text. By doing so, you’re indicating to her that you have not much else going on, and further, she might start feeling like you’re violating the NAP (which of course is heresy). In seriousness, the more you push, the more she is likely to move away.

On the same token, don’t request or follow her on social media. Let her initiate that. Even though it’s tempting (particularly if you have mutual friends), as the inter-connectedness of platforms like Twitter, Facebook, and Snapchat make it extremely easy to find people, you must show restraint and make her first show enough interest to connect on her own volition.