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Modern men frequently think of a marriage and family as a disaster and a time-wasting escapade. Yet, people still get married and have children, as it is a biologically grounded need.
Nevertheless, before you bound yourself with responsibilities, you need to find a girl you would like to see both as a lover and wife. It is not that simple, but also not that hard. Sometimes, picking up a girl takes courage and certain effort, in other cases, a girl might be in pursuit of dating you.
We at Russian Dating Site BridesStars.com have a list of simple rules that would help you pick up girls and set a relationship, no matter what kind of intentions you have! Note: every rule is only a subjective skeleton of what you need to do to get the girl; accomplish it with your own ideas and experience for the best results,
- Be your best self. Girls see the world through the prism of their sophisticated apprehension. And what she actually sees when you are trying to act as someone else – is your pathetic attitude. So obviously, there is no need to be a macho for girls to like you; in fact, an average girl would be frightened by your aggressive and assertive behavior. Vice versa, there is no need to demonstrate her all your intentions and peculiarities. If you want to hook up for sex, revealing it to her from scratch would work properly only once within hundred cases. Even if a certain girl would really love to have sex right now without any regrets, she would still act extra humble when you ask her about it. It is all about their nature! Nevertheless, you should always be mentally ready for picking up. Sometimes it happens that a guy asks a hot girl out expecting her to reject his proposition, and when she accepts, he does not know what to do. Surprisingly it is not a rare occasion. When you try to hook a girl up, be ready to organize the date. Do not be afraid of rejection! Women are predators and they smell fear miles away. If you start a pickup fearing rejection, that is what you project, and, as well, what you will get in the end. Be less attached to the result. Imagine that you are just approaching this girl to have a conversation, not to pick her up. If it goes further than a conversation, consider it a reward. This is called a positive visualization.
- Forget all the pickup lines. The contemporary world is all about the Internet in literally every sphere. If you are using any type of popular pickup lines starting from Joey’s signature “How you doin’?” and ending with anything more singular and sophisticated – be sure she had heard or read it numerous times before. Therefore, using it, you would look more like a walking encyclopedia of hilarious pickups than a wanted man. If you have troubles choosing how to start a conversation – let the situation choose it for you. To seem unplanned, commenting on something she is wearing or has been doing can work. Try avoiding stalker talks (“I have been watching you for last…”), it is just creepy.
- Know what you are getting into. After diving into a conversation, try leading her to an already sought after result. If you want to have sex and are about to proclaim that – well, what are you waiting for? However, if you want to take your ‘relationship’ to the next level – dating or whatever – at the end of a 10 to 15-minute talk ask her out on a date. She might reject such a prompt offer so be careful with that. Consider getting her phone number or, even better, an email address. Women like email because the communication is not a live performance, and they can more naturally play the whole “make him wait” game that is so popular with phone tag.
- Make her feel not like prey but a predator. We have already figured out that girls do not actually like to be stalked. Moreover, women love to believe that she was the one who caught your heart and attention. Create and image of a total admiration. She needs to know she is amazing, not just okay. Likewise, think of what you can offer her as your benefit. Frankly speaking, any characteristic can be depicted as an advantage. In terms of differences, if, for example, you are after a woman younger than you are and you are worried it is an issue, think about it from her angle — you are an older, worldly and, consequently, confident man with the skill to pleasure her.
